Bob is pleased to be the Columbia County attorney for Child Centered Solutions, representing children in high conflict family law cases. http://www.childcenteredsolutions.org
Bob is a certified mediator in the State of Oregon and past Board Chair of Resolutions Northwest. http://www.resolutionsnorthwest.org
Given the complexity of the law, and the individuality of each case, I cannot emphasize enough that you do need the services of a trained and experienced legal professional when you have a complex legal matter to face.
That said, there are infinite web-based resources out there on divorce, child custody, etc. As with other things, go to Google and type in whatever you are looking for. (e.g., "Oregon divorce" or "parenting plan Oregon" or just "divorce").